The Meeting is tomorrow

**Oce** · August 25th, 2004, 07:33 PM

I'm meeting with the head pastor and erin's father tomorrow to straighten this all out. Wish me luck.

*this will make no sense to those that don't read my threads.

-megalithanod · August 25th, 2004, 07:37 PM

No offense Oce, but after seeing how they treated you, for you wanting to get to know the other person, and how someone stepped into it behind your back and caused the problems, I am not sure why you would want to go back

**Peter Peeker** · August 25th, 2004, 07:47 PM

best of luck, brother.

remember, you did NOTHING wrong.

**Moviemaniac4** · August 25th, 2004, 07:50 PM

She REALLY has to be a special girl for you to do that......

Anyway, if you insist on going, best of luck. If they keep bugging you and she do love you, get away and marry in VEGAS !!!!

**Quikman** · August 25th, 2004, 07:51 PM

Good luck Oce..if it were me in the situation they would get to hear a thign or to..and aint no sweeet talking either..

**Oce** · August 25th, 2004, 07:52 PM

Originally posted by -megalithanod:
No offense Oce, but after seeing how they treated you, for you wanting to get to know the other person, and how someone stepped into it behind your back and caused the problems, I am not sure why you would want to go back

I did get royaly screwed. Even the head pastor of the church said so, but he sadi 'short changed." But the church is my home and the members are my family, more so that my actual family. Just because one guy screwed that all up for me doen't mean I'm going to give up. I'm sure we won't be able to date each other, but the pastor is going to make it so we can atleast see each other. That's all I ask for.

**Guyver** · August 25th, 2004, 08:17 PM

Originally posted by Oce:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by -megalithanod:

the church is my home and the members are my family, more so that my actual family. .<hr /></blockquote>I don't care how much your church means to you. it should never be your home, and NEVER be more of a family that the one your God gave you. No matter how bad things are they are your blood and always will be. Any church that would put itself or make you think that it is more than a place to commune with your god is nothing more than a cult.
I know you have no reson to take my word on this but I will tell you that I myself was once in Seminary school. I was once ready to give up everything I had to be one with my god. Till It was made clear to me that The only thing I must do to stay true to my faith is to just stay true to my faith. A man can not tell you your god's will, only your god can do that. Have faith in your faith not in the ones who tell you what you should
think.

Sorry, It had to be said.